After reading a few posts where it's been mentioned, I am curious how many of you ladies give hand jobs to your husbands/significant others?
I haven't given a hand job in at least 8-9 years and I'm sure I'd be awful at it if I tried. I do BJs, but I guess I feel like a hand job is something he can handle on his own...
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I used to write erotica before I saddled myself with a husband and a bunch of kids. So my DH actually enjoys it when I give him and hand job and tell him a story.
TMI warning - Typically though, if I'm not in the mood for a bj and he's not in the mood for intercourse but we want to do something together, I'll just tongue his balls while he finishes himself off.
Wow...Either you're a really nice lady, or I'm a really mean lady. My hormones are so on the opposite side of the spectrum that I'm not really even into holding hands, much less getting all up in some balls. Poor guy.
I love when ppl share too much about their sex life. I am soooo that kinda gal ; )
See, this I will do, and I will wash him in the shower and give him pretty much a total rub down (minus his butt crack because I just refuse to go there) to get him in the mood, which I guess qualifies kind of, but that's about it.
I've also been slacking in BJ territory because I had such a bad gag reflex in my 1st tri that I'm still kind of scared to finish him off that way... lol so I just add it to foreplay before the actual sex so he's still getting something oral wise since I know how much he likes it.
DD1- 12/26/05 DD2- 4/12/12
ETA: It was not my hubs that couldn't perform...
I feel the same way. DH doesn't count foreplay as a bj no matter how close he gets to completion before we move on to intercourse. But I like to get some action too!
I feel kind of in the minority. I have never really been into BJs, I seriously think I can count on 1 hand how many times I have stuck a peen into my mouth. Haha.
Hand jobs are really only given when I am so far from wanting sex but DH has a raging boner. He will seriously roll over and go to sleep with major blue balls before he'd even consider just servicing himself. So I usually feel really bad and just give the old fashioned HJ a go, DH doesn't complain, obviously it's better than the nothing he would have gone to sleep with.
Also when we fool around in the shower I tend to go in for a HJ for him as well.
As for the PP's talking about over sharing all the time, I just want to give you ladies a virtual high five. I seriously probably share way to much, I am such an open book and forget to watch how much I really say sometimes. Haha. I think I kept it fairly decent in this posts though.