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Sex question and a CP

After reading a few posts where it's been mentioned, I am curious how many of you ladies give hand jobs to your husbands/significant others?

I haven't given a hand job in at least 8-9 years and I'm sure I'd be awful at it if I tried. I do BJs, but I guess I feel like a hand job is something he can handle on his own...

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Re: Sex question and a CP

  • I think I have given 1 in my entire life and that's because he couldn't "perform" and I was trying to help....hand-jobs are for masturbation, IMO.
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  • I'm not sure how i should respond in the poll. I do it to get the ball rollin with everything else. Never a whole start to finish thing. Just get it hard so i can get minz.
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  • I do sometimes, and I thought surely he must be better at this himself, but he told me it feels better when I do it. It's not often, though. Only if I can't/don't want to have sex and feel guilty about how long it's been. I hate giving blow jobs, so I avoid them in any way possible. lol.
  • I only do that as a part of foreplay and not just that...always ends in sex...My DH wouldn't be able to finish by a hand job alone.
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  • I used to write erotica before I saddled myself with a husband and a bunch of kids.  So my DH actually enjoys it when I give him and hand job and tell him a story. 

    TMI warning - Typically though, if I'm not in the mood for a bj and he's not in the mood for intercourse but we want to do something together, I'll just tongue his balls while he finishes himself off.

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    I used to write erotica before I saddled myself with a husband and a bunch of kids.  So my DH actually enjoys it when I give him and hand job and tell him a story. 

    TMI warning - Typically though, if I'm not in the mood for a bj and he's not in the mood for intercourse but we want to do something together, I'll just tongue his balls while he finishes himself off.

     Wow...Either you're a really nice lady, or I'm a really mean lady.  My hormones are so on the opposite side of the spectrum that I'm not really even into holding hands, much less getting all up in some balls.  Poor guy. 

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  • imagesbost0118:

    I used to write erotica before I saddled myself with a husband and a bunch of kids.  So my DH actually enjoys it when I give him and hand job and tell him a story. 

    TMI warning - Typically though, if I'm not in the mood for a bj and he's not in the mood for intercourse but we want to do something together, I'll just tongue his balls while he finishes himself off.

    I love when ppl share too much about their sex life. I am soooo that kinda gal ; )

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  • imagewilburbud:
    Ill rub DH- but never to a point of climax. Its usually just to tease the hell out of him in completely inappropriate places (like the car or a dark movie theater). As for blow jobs, I wish... I used to enjoy giving them. but within the last year, year and a half, my gag reflex has become super sensative..

    See, this I will do, and I will wash him in the shower and give him pretty much a total rub down (minus his butt crack because I just refuse to go there) to get him in the mood, which I guess qualifies kind of, but that's about it.

    I've also been slacking in BJ territory because I had such a bad gag reflex in my 1st tri that I'm still kind of scared to finish him off that way... lol so I just add it to foreplay before the actual sex so he's still getting something oral wise since I know how much he likes it.

     

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  • I never do just a hand job.  I will use my hands to get things going, but it will always turn into more foreplay.  We don't have a routine so it's never boring.  I like giving bj's to hubby, but he doesn't like me to go down unless he's freshly showered (I'm the same way when it comes to me).  He honestly admitted that I have been the only girl to give him a bj (I was shocked cus he is very pretty down below and he was 27 when we started dating).  His ex wife was such a *** prude she layed there like a fish and didn't ever do anything and was disguisted when it came to sex.  My poor hubby had seriously bad sex before we hooked up!
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  • imageDragonflyBelle:
    I think I have given 1 in my entire life and that's because he couldn't "perform" and I was trying to help....hand-jobs are for masturbation, IMO.

     

    ETA: It was not my hubs that couldn't perform...

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  • Like a PP, I incorporate the "old fashioned" into foreplay a lot. Every once in a while I do it instead of some other sex activity. Since I usually want sex more often than he does, I would probably do it more if I didn't feel like it would decrease the amount of other stuff we do.
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  • Mamasaurus I feel the same way. I want to have sex! I think DH is disappointed I won't Bj to finish but I get really excited when I do it so I want to get something out of it too. 
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    Mamasaurus I feel the same way. I want to have sex! I think DH is disappointed I won't Bj to finish but I get really excited when I do it so I want to get something out of it too. 

    I feel the same way. DH doesn't count foreplay as a bj no matter how close he gets to completion before we move on to intercourse.  But I like to get some action too!

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  • I feel kind of in the minority. I have never really been into BJs, I seriously think I can count on 1 hand how many times I have stuck a peen into my mouth. Haha. 

    Hand jobs are really only given when I am so far from wanting sex but DH has a raging boner. He will seriously roll over and go to sleep with major blue balls before he'd even consider just servicing himself. So I usually feel really bad and just give the old fashioned HJ a go, DH doesn't complain, obviously it's better than the nothing he would have gone to sleep with.

    Also when we fool around in the shower I tend to go in for a HJ for him as well.

    As for the PP's talking about over sharing all the time, I just want to give you ladies a virtual high five. I seriously probably share way to much, I am such an open book and forget to watch how much I really say sometimes. Haha. I think I kept it fairly decent in this posts though. Stick out tongue 

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